Thoughts
Monday, December 18, 2006
i got to know that one of my jie is having problems with her guy.
Identical circumstances that i once went thru.
and i truly understand what she is going thru now.
When it is with regards to matters of the heart, we can never use logic to try and explained the actions that was taken.
Angry words, unreasonable actions, stubbornness came into surface.
Jie was hurt. So was people around her.
and i begin to ponder...
why do human held the grudges within their r/s deep in their heart?
why do they hurt the other party when they truly love and in return hurt themselves in the process?
It is worth it to flare up?
Why do we always listen to our emotions instead of our rational thinking?
Can cant human control their emotions and act rationally?
Knowing well that this decision will in return gain nothing but pain, yet they still go ahead and do it?
is it worth it to preserve on?
Are humans born sadist that we love to inflict pain and torture onto ourselves?
Why cant we just let go when it is less painful in the long run?
What promotes us to make that irrational decision?
Love.. its all about love.
A relationship btw a couple is not just loving that one person wholeheartedly only.
its like flying a kite. You need to know when to pull and when to let go.
Too much of either one, will kill the process.
Its about trust, commitment, accepting one another, learning to give each other personal space, etc etc.. there's so many other conditions required in a r/s.
If you cant trust, you will turn into a possessive freak and jealousy will appear.
If you cant commit, the other party might be hurt (in the event)
if you cant accept one another, the r/s will soon be broken as both parties will forever be pinpointing each other faults.
If you cant give personal space, there might be a day where someone will become breathless and wish for a break.
love can be sweet for one moment, ugly within the next minute.
Its all about how you handle situations and how you react to it.
Troublesome isnt?
I wonder.. what would the world be like if we do not have the ability to "love" in our heart?
Identical circumstances that i once went thru.
and i truly understand what she is going thru now.
When it is with regards to matters of the heart, we can never use logic to try and explained the actions that was taken.
Angry words, unreasonable actions, stubbornness came into surface.
Jie was hurt. So was people around her.
and i begin to ponder...
why do human held the grudges within their r/s deep in their heart?
why do they hurt the other party when they truly love and in return hurt themselves in the process?
It is worth it to flare up?
Why do we always listen to our emotions instead of our rational thinking?
Can cant human control their emotions and act rationally?
Knowing well that this decision will in return gain nothing but pain, yet they still go ahead and do it?
is it worth it to preserve on?
Are humans born sadist that we love to inflict pain and torture onto ourselves?
Why cant we just let go when it is less painful in the long run?
What promotes us to make that irrational decision?
Love.. its all about love.
A relationship btw a couple is not just loving that one person wholeheartedly only.
its like flying a kite. You need to know when to pull and when to let go.
Too much of either one, will kill the process.
Its about trust, commitment, accepting one another, learning to give each other personal space, etc etc.. there's so many other conditions required in a r/s.
If you cant trust, you will turn into a possessive freak and jealousy will appear.
If you cant commit, the other party might be hurt (in the event)
if you cant accept one another, the r/s will soon be broken as both parties will forever be pinpointing each other faults.
If you cant give personal space, there might be a day where someone will become breathless and wish for a break.
love can be sweet for one moment, ugly within the next minute.
Its all about how you handle situations and how you react to it.
Troublesome isnt?
I wonder.. what would the world be like if we do not have the ability to "love" in our heart?
posted by icy at 12/18/2006 02:29:00 AM
