Which?
Saturday, May 05, 2007
Seriously, i dunno what to write today.
haha.
About how i feel today?
About what happen today?
hmm...
Nothing much.
How about asking, people, do you believe in
1) Absence makes the heart grow fonder
or
2) Out of sight out of mind?
I have a fren, who have not met her gf for 2mths.
I was like o.O?
Is that consider a r/s?
and i'm not talking about overseas relationship.
If overseas r/s, then bo pian.. (and its not easy to maintain an overseas r/s in the first place lor!)
Me?
Up to date, i am a strong believer in "Out of sight, out of mind".
"absence makes the heart grow fonder" only works when 2 person are deeply in love and both knew/believe/trust about the love they had for each other. Even tho, there's no "sight" there's still "calls".
However, when you dont see a person for long, when there's nothing to remind u of him/her, you will forget everything - how he/she looks like, his/her presence, his/her love, etc etc.
its like.. 时间能冲淡一切！
Therefore, i cannot believe when i heard someone(anyone) waiting for other for years?
How can someone constantly remember the love when its gone for so long or how can someone wait for another when he/she knows that the love was long gone?
I have heard stories about how a girl waited for a man for 3 years even tho knowing that the man no longer harbour any feelings for her. My first reaction? that girl is... FOOLISH!! waste of time. zzz.. we girls, do not appreciate with time. We DEPRECIATE with time!
I personally.. have experience of man telling me how long they waited for me, or how much they regret for ... taking me for granted after years of breakup. (and wanting me bk)
i was like, "DUN LIE!" inside my heart.
Cause i dun believe! o.O
You can say u waited for someone yet at the same time looking for another or have another girl in your heart/life.. is that call waiting? zzz...
Waiting is a painful and lonely experience which i dun think humans being humans with emotional needs, would choose to go thru this path knowing that there's nothing at the end of the road... (well unless they tried but couldnt get any during the "waiting" time, so they say they "waited")
This is just my personal views. hee..
What do you think??
P.S: i say i dunno what to write, in the end i write alot. haha.
haha.
About how i feel today?
About what happen today?
hmm...
Nothing much.
How about asking, people, do you believe in
1) Absence makes the heart grow fonder
or
2) Out of sight out of mind?
I have a fren, who have not met her gf for 2mths.
I was like o.O?
Is that consider a r/s?
and i'm not talking about overseas relationship.
If overseas r/s, then bo pian.. (and its not easy to maintain an overseas r/s in the first place lor!)
Me?
Up to date, i am a strong believer in "Out of sight, out of mind".
"absence makes the heart grow fonder" only works when 2 person are deeply in love and both knew/believe/trust about the love they had for each other. Even tho, there's no "sight" there's still "calls".
However, when you dont see a person for long, when there's nothing to remind u of him/her, you will forget everything - how he/she looks like, his/her presence, his/her love, etc etc.
its like.. 时间能冲淡一切！
Therefore, i cannot believe when i heard someone(anyone) waiting for other for years?
How can someone constantly remember the love when its gone for so long or how can someone wait for another when he/she knows that the love was long gone?
I have heard stories about how a girl waited for a man for 3 years even tho knowing that the man no longer harbour any feelings for her. My first reaction? that girl is... FOOLISH!! waste of time. zzz.. we girls, do not appreciate with time. We DEPRECIATE with time!
I personally.. have experience of man telling me how long they waited for me, or how much they regret for ... taking me for granted after years of breakup. (and wanting me bk)
i was like, "DUN LIE!" inside my heart.
Cause i dun believe! o.O
You can say u waited for someone yet at the same time looking for another or have another girl in your heart/life.. is that call waiting? zzz...
Waiting is a painful and lonely experience which i dun think humans being humans with emotional needs, would choose to go thru this path knowing that there's nothing at the end of the road... (well unless they tried but couldnt get any during the "waiting" time, so they say they "waited")
This is just my personal views. hee..
What do you think??
P.S: i say i dunno what to write, in the end i write alot. haha.
posted by icy at 5/05/2007 02:49:00 AM
