Why do we have to love?
Sunday, December 16, 2007
Imagine a world without having to love.
what would it be like?
With love, comes jealousy, together with Heartache, tears and pain.
Yes, definitely, with love, comes wonderful things - joy, laughter, care and concern.
What if, we could only have the feeling of loving friends and family only? we still get joy, laughter care and concern isnt?
How would the world be like?
Without needing to find someone u love, to "generate the next generation"..
Then you will not have.. relatives coming after you.. with questions like...
"have bf/gf already?"
"when getting married?"
"aiyo, so old liao still no bf/gf ah?"
you will not have to go thru tons of heartaches.. just to find the final one..
which also might not be the final one..
With love.. we cried a million times. We pain a thousand times. We ache for most of the time.
Afraid of getting hurt. Afraid of loving.
thats what people feels.. after being hurt for a thousand times.
Why do a couple comes together only to realise things are not meant to be at the final stage?
Why do we start something yet knowingly.. we knew somehow we will get hurt in the process?
Love is contradicting isnt?
We, are afraid of loving, yet at the same time, we yield to be love.
We, are afraid of giving, yet at the same time, we wish to be protected and cared for.
We, knew love comes with hurt and pain, yet at the same time, we still sink into one to enjoy the process of "being in love"
We, argued, to know each other better.
We, disagree, to know what each other is thinking.
We have to go through painful processes only to discover if he/she is the one.
Some takes once or twice..
Some goes thru time after time, and yet couldnt find the right one.
My love, My Fate.
Are you the one?
what would it be like?
With love, comes jealousy, together with Heartache, tears and pain.
Yes, definitely, with love, comes wonderful things - joy, laughter, care and concern.
What if, we could only have the feeling of loving friends and family only? we still get joy, laughter care and concern isnt?
How would the world be like?
Without needing to find someone u love, to "generate the next generation"..
Then you will not have.. relatives coming after you.. with questions like...
"have bf/gf already?"
"when getting married?"
"aiyo, so old liao still no bf/gf ah?"
you will not have to go thru tons of heartaches.. just to find the final one..
which also might not be the final one..
With love.. we cried a million times. We pain a thousand times. We ache for most of the time.
Afraid of getting hurt. Afraid of loving.
thats what people feels.. after being hurt for a thousand times.
Why do a couple comes together only to realise things are not meant to be at the final stage?
Why do we start something yet knowingly.. we knew somehow we will get hurt in the process?
Love is contradicting isnt?
We, are afraid of loving, yet at the same time, we yield to be love.
We, are afraid of giving, yet at the same time, we wish to be protected and cared for.
We, knew love comes with hurt and pain, yet at the same time, we still sink into one to enjoy the process of "being in love"
We, argued, to know each other better.
We, disagree, to know what each other is thinking.
We have to go through painful processes only to discover if he/she is the one.
Some takes once or twice..
Some goes thru time after time, and yet couldnt find the right one.
My love, My Fate.
Are you the one?
posted by icy at 12/16/2007 03:26:00 AM
