My senses and brain went on a lagging mode today.

I couldnt continue the conversations that was held with Chris Jaren (after being complaint that he feels weird being called chris T. lol.) most of the time.

I will wander off into space...... or i'll just talk halfway and lost my train of thoughts. lol.

Is this consider hangover? hmm..

Oh ya.. was out catching a movie and was glad to watch "Definitely, Maybe"

Its a wonderful love comedy which i personally love the plot very much.

Extracted from GV Website..

"Ryan Reynolds stars as Will Hayes, a 30-something Manhattan dad in the midst of a divorce when his 10-year-old daughter, Maya (Abigail Breslin), starts to question him about his life before marriage. Maya wants to know absolutely everything about how her parents met and fell in love. Will's story begins in 1992, as a young, starry-eyed aspiring politician who moves to New York from Wisconsin in order to work on the presidential campaign. For Maya, Will relives his past as an idealistic young man learning the ins and outs of big city politics, and recounts the history of his romantic relationships with three very different women. Will hopelessly attempts a "gentler" version of his story for his daughter and changes the names so Maya has to guess who is the woman her father finally married. Is her mother Will's college sweetheart, the dependable girl next door Emily (Elizabeth Banks)? Is she his longtime best friend and confidante, the apolitical April (Isla Fisher)? Or is she the free-spirited but ambitious journalist Summer (Rachel Weisz)? As Maya puts together the pieces of her dad's romantic puzzle, she begins to understand that love is not so simple or easy. And as Will tells her his tale, Maya helps him to understand that it's definitely never too late to go back...and maybe even possible to find a happy ending."

Its a show which keeps us in suspense on who he finally got married to and who he really love. Its a show with a twist in the end.

My personal thoughts from the show:

Love is the process of finding the one whom u really felt for and that fate do plays a part too.

Its real in some senses that humans tend to go thru circles in relationships. Going back and forth in them. Breaking up, patching back years later or months later only to finally understand that its never gonna be.

What has been broken before, when mended back, would have scars left behind.

Misunderstanding and assumptions can cause u to make a wrong decision in life and only to live with regrets later on.

In the show, ryan was given a chance to mend back the assumptions that he made when he was young.

But in reality, its hardly the case. So i believe its always good to communicate and tell the other party what u really feels. If you love, just say it. If you dun, just leave it.

Rather than keeping it within you and looking out from afar.

Its quite silly if both parties actually love each other, yet none make the first move and eventually someone else came along and everything becomes a history.

So if you love, just go for it. At least you tried if u fail. If Ryan had been more sensitive, he would have discover that she has always been there turning round and round in his life. =)