Have You..
Thursday, October 23, 2008
Ever been through the process of not being about to forget a certain in your life?
and that.. the person's every doing, every presence, every news still affects u in someway or another?
Met up with a friend earlier. She was unable to forget her ex that has broken up almost a year ago.
She told me.. that she tried getting him out of her mind, she thought she did. She even moved on with another relationship.
however, somehow or another fate crosses their path again and she bumped into him along the streets.
Just an exchange of smiles and she quickly turned away.
She keep asking herself.. why is this happening and what should she do to forget him. Since.. he actually wasnt exactly a wonderful bf from the beginning.
I couldnt give her an answer.. i could only tell her.. that time heals, time forget.
Some people take a lifetime to forget a certain person.
Some people take only 2 weeks to forget.
While some never do.. as memories always follow u till the end of time.
as i write this post memories of different ppl in my life who have walked the path with me before zoom pass my eyes.
Have i ever not been about to forget a certain person?
definitely. Memories cannot be erase. however feelings can slowly fade off.
i'm sure everyone of us has a special being in our heart where we can never forget him/her.
first love, the most painful love.. etc.
its pain that keeps us alive, its memories that keeps us human.
i can only say..
"be strong girl, you will sooner or later forget the man forget the feelings.. you have admitted that the feelings has already faded off, not as strong as before even thou u are still slightly affected. time heals, time passes, and time allows u to let go of it.. u just need more time thats all.."
indeed.. more time might be needed for some people..
and that.. the person's every doing, every presence, every news still affects u in someway or another?
Met up with a friend earlier. She was unable to forget her ex that has broken up almost a year ago.
She told me.. that she tried getting him out of her mind, she thought she did. She even moved on with another relationship.
however, somehow or another fate crosses their path again and she bumped into him along the streets.
Just an exchange of smiles and she quickly turned away.
She keep asking herself.. why is this happening and what should she do to forget him. Since.. he actually wasnt exactly a wonderful bf from the beginning.
I couldnt give her an answer.. i could only tell her.. that time heals, time forget.
Some people take a lifetime to forget a certain person.
Some people take only 2 weeks to forget.
While some never do.. as memories always follow u till the end of time.
as i write this post memories of different ppl in my life who have walked the path with me before zoom pass my eyes.
Have i ever not been about to forget a certain person?
definitely. Memories cannot be erase. however feelings can slowly fade off.
i'm sure everyone of us has a special being in our heart where we can never forget him/her.
first love, the most painful love.. etc.
its pain that keeps us alive, its memories that keeps us human.
i can only say..
"be strong girl, you will sooner or later forget the man forget the feelings.. you have admitted that the feelings has already faded off, not as strong as before even thou u are still slightly affected. time heals, time passes, and time allows u to let go of it.. u just need more time thats all.."
indeed.. more time might be needed for some people..
posted by icy at 10/23/2008 01:57:00 AM
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