Regarding the previous post....
Wednesday, October 01, 2008
of coz..
love to me, was once a wonderful feeling. The top of the world, i was willing to give everything and anything to the one i love.
Never once.. did i asked for anything in return. Maybe i do. I only asked for him to shower me with care and attention. thats all it matters.
i have had once a bf, who asked money from me becoz he doesnt have enough to spend. he borrowed money from my mom, took money from me, demanded me to buy ciggy for him and bring it up to his house.. which is a good 40mins away from my house.
he 2-time me eventually and i walk out of the r/s with nothing. oh and did i mention its my first r/s? lol!
Maybe i thought this is a one off incident.
until i heard horror stories as i grew older from my close friends, from my respectful aunties that.. some men are like that.
I dun mean that all men are like that. i have met alot of nice guys.
and i have seen alot of good relationships.
but i have also seen enough and been thru enough shit to have finally learn to protect myself more.
that there are some guys who are the bas****s living off their gfs thinking that they are just plain blur and stupid. All they need to give was love and sweet talks.. and he can just live them off.
i have seen some and its the truth that this do happen.
so my point across.. was.. more of.. asking females to open their eyes bigger.. dun give everything only to realise at the end of the day.. you get back nothing in return except heartaches.
maybe .. saying relationships as barter trade is a little too extreme and realistic. but dun we all live in a realistic world where...
even kinship are being measured by money and even most marriage become "divorce" are mainly due to finances.
all i can say is.. love arent plain and simple anymore.
who doesnt yield for a love that only concerns about love and love only?
but unfortunately, we dun live in a world that only revolves around love.
so i personally feel that love has already evolved to the extend of a barter trade. =)
eh..... i dunno if sound logical or is about to put my point across.. maybe to some i am writing rubbish.
there's always 2 sides to a coin, so there's always others who have different views with me.
so i'm all ears to what all of you have gonna say..
sorry i dunno how to activate my comment box! lol so dun mind my small tagbox! ~! =DD~
love to me, was once a wonderful feeling. The top of the world, i was willing to give everything and anything to the one i love.
Never once.. did i asked for anything in return. Maybe i do. I only asked for him to shower me with care and attention. thats all it matters.
i have had once a bf, who asked money from me becoz he doesnt have enough to spend. he borrowed money from my mom, took money from me, demanded me to buy ciggy for him and bring it up to his house.. which is a good 40mins away from my house.
he 2-time me eventually and i walk out of the r/s with nothing. oh and did i mention its my first r/s? lol!
Maybe i thought this is a one off incident.
until i heard horror stories as i grew older from my close friends, from my respectful aunties that.. some men are like that.
I dun mean that all men are like that. i have met alot of nice guys.
and i have seen alot of good relationships.
but i have also seen enough and been thru enough shit to have finally learn to protect myself more.
that there are some guys who are the bas****s living off their gfs thinking that they are just plain blur and stupid. All they need to give was love and sweet talks.. and he can just live them off.
i have seen some and its the truth that this do happen.
so my point across.. was.. more of.. asking females to open their eyes bigger.. dun give everything only to realise at the end of the day.. you get back nothing in return except heartaches.
maybe .. saying relationships as barter trade is a little too extreme and realistic. but dun we all live in a realistic world where...
even kinship are being measured by money and even most marriage become "divorce" are mainly due to finances.
all i can say is.. love arent plain and simple anymore.
who doesnt yield for a love that only concerns about love and love only?
but unfortunately, we dun live in a world that only revolves around love.
so i personally feel that love has already evolved to the extend of a barter trade. =)
eh..... i dunno if sound logical or is about to put my point across.. maybe to some i am writing rubbish.
there's always 2 sides to a coin, so there's always others who have different views with me.
so i'm all ears to what all of you have gonna say..
sorry i dunno how to activate my comment box! lol so dun mind my small tagbox! ~! =DD~
posted by icy at 10/01/2008 03:28:00 AM
