Keep up with Expectations
Saturday, February 14, 2009
first of all, happy valentines day peeps. its a day to celebrate friendship too! so dun feel lonely.
me? i'm gonna play mj later. and maybe move on to another place for mj too.
well, lets just say.. i dun really feel like going out. =)
now what is with the title?
Let me just .. fix my thoughts and write out how i feel.
Every now and then, we will be face with expectations. Be it at work, be it in r/s.
Work expectations comes from your boss..
and relationship expectations comes from you. You set your own expectations.
Why do i say so?
lets just say.. when you are wooing that girl, you gave her everything from the world.
nice flowers, nice dinners..
and after getting together.. the flowers got smaller, the nice dinners became macs or hawkers.
Do you know its call double standards?
and WTF are u thinking?
it doesnt reflect nicely on you.
it just simply means that you do not put in any effort on the stuffs that u do anymore.
the efforts you put in during the courtship has all evaporate into thin mist.
it can be very disappointing to the girl that you love do you know that?
it doesnt mean - "buy one can liao. its the thoughts that count."
Thoughts that count is an excuse for your laziness to look out the best for your girl.
she is your girl, the love of your life (at that particular moment), shouldnt she deserve the best? or at least, the same as what you given her during the courtship?
shouldnt you look carefully at her and ask yourself how much you know her and what is the things that deserves her best?
I can be real nice to a person i love, yet i can be real bitchy if there's double standards.
so never double standards you know boys? its really.. very disappointing to the person u love.
and dun give the excuse of "its the thoughts that count.." becoz this excuse has been over used zillion times for our laziness and our stingy-ness.
when do we use "its the thoughts that count.."?
1) when we buy a very small gift.
2) when we give a very small ang bao.
3) when we just look out for some present that is quite useless to that person.
4) so on and so forth..
disappointments can stay forever in a person's heart. so.. try not to step into that zone..
and disappointments can cause tears to flow you know?
becoz disappointments are painful too.
i have seen my friends feeling it. and it pisses me off. =.=
man - they never understand.
me? i'm gonna play mj later. and maybe move on to another place for mj too.
well, lets just say.. i dun really feel like going out. =)
now what is with the title?
Let me just .. fix my thoughts and write out how i feel.
Every now and then, we will be face with expectations. Be it at work, be it in r/s.
Work expectations comes from your boss..
and relationship expectations comes from you. You set your own expectations.
Why do i say so?
lets just say.. when you are wooing that girl, you gave her everything from the world.
nice flowers, nice dinners..
and after getting together.. the flowers got smaller, the nice dinners became macs or hawkers.
Do you know its call double standards?
and WTF are u thinking?
it doesnt reflect nicely on you.
it just simply means that you do not put in any effort on the stuffs that u do anymore.
the efforts you put in during the courtship has all evaporate into thin mist.
it can be very disappointing to the girl that you love do you know that?
it doesnt mean - "buy one can liao. its the thoughts that count."
Thoughts that count is an excuse for your laziness to look out the best for your girl.
she is your girl, the love of your life (at that particular moment), shouldnt she deserve the best? or at least, the same as what you given her during the courtship?
shouldnt you look carefully at her and ask yourself how much you know her and what is the things that deserves her best?
I can be real nice to a person i love, yet i can be real bitchy if there's double standards.
so never double standards you know boys? its really.. very disappointing to the person u love.
and dun give the excuse of "its the thoughts that count.." becoz this excuse has been over used zillion times for our laziness and our stingy-ness.
when do we use "its the thoughts that count.."?
1) when we buy a very small gift.
2) when we give a very small ang bao.
3) when we just look out for some present that is quite useless to that person.
4) so on and so forth..
disappointments can stay forever in a person's heart. so.. try not to step into that zone..
and disappointments can cause tears to flow you know?
becoz disappointments are painful too.
i have seen my friends feeling it. and it pisses me off. =.=
man - they never understand.
posted by icy at 2/14/2009 02:01:00 PM
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