Sunday, July 30, 2006

The Five Love Languages

My primary love language is probably
Physical Touch
with a secondary love language being
Quality Time.

Complete set of results

Physical Touch: 8
Quality Time: 7
Acts of Service: 5
Receiving Gifts: 5
Words of Affirmation: 5


Information

Unhappiness in relationships, according to Dr. Gary Chapman, is often due to the fact that we speak different love languages. Sometimes we don't understand our partner's requirements, or even our own. We all have a "love tank" that needs to be filled in order for us to express love to others, but there are different means by which our tank can be filled, and there are different ways that we can express love to others.

Take the quiz

Got the link from aB's blog and decides to try it anyway. hehehe..

Hmm.. dont seems true leh? i dunno either. hahaha.

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posted by icy at 7/30/2006 10:29:00 PM

Tired..

Wednesday, July 26, 2006
Tired ah... Tomorrow will start training at starhub cuppage.

This is my first time working for starhub. haha.

Wed and thurs training at SH..

The main road show will be at suntec next week.

Busy Busy Busy..

i'm too damn lazy to post.. as there isnt much things happening in my life...

I Miss him Lots.. *cries*..
posted by icy at 7/26/2006 12:33:00 AM

changed of address

Monday, July 24, 2006
due to unforseen circumstances, i have changed my address again.

The cute little girl, cousin of mine (pri 6 nia lor..), actually wanna show my blog to my aunt.

As there's lots of things that i would rather not have my family to know, i am changing my address.

Please update yr blogs if possible k! =)

thanks!
posted by icy at 7/24/2006 01:05:00 AM

Rebecca Shoes!

Saturday, July 22, 2006
1/2 of the parcel is here! Got a shock initially as that seller didnt even tell us that she has sent over one of the parcel.

2 of my shoes are here!

http://scarletdance.blogspot.com/2006/06/shopping-again.html

the first one and the black heels are here! still left one more. hopefully i will receive it soon.

Met up with cyrus earlier for dinner.

Got a shock initally when he ask me out.

oh well.. we have broken up over a year and its been that long since we last saw each other.

He still look the same and didnt change much. (except for the heart) hahaha.

anyway, it was nice seeing him again. Afterall we are still friends.

boring.. i have classes on sat morning.. sigh.. ZZZzz..
posted by icy at 7/22/2006 12:45:00 AM

Kana is here!

Friday, July 21, 2006
So happy!!!! My loots just arrived this afternoon at my place!

The blue blue jump suit. Hohoho..






















































Nice ma?! hehehehe.. kana is so efficient! I am simply in love with her clothes. *loves*



Yesterday went MOS with iris. I'm falling in love with retro now.. hehe..
posted by icy at 7/21/2006 12:46:00 AM

Self Hate Mode

Wednesday, July 19, 2006
I think i on depression mode today. or another term - self hate mode.

I keep thinking of those stupid things that i have done, stupid things that i have said.

How How. Dunno why those memories keep flowing through my mind leh.

Fucking irritating. -.-"
posted by icy at 7/19/2006 12:39:00 AM

My Wishes

Tuesday, July 18, 2006
Met Vanessa today as she wanted to borrow my camera for her birthday celebration later. lol.

Happy Happy birthday girl! Tho i do not know if u read my blog.

Anyway, she told me she's going to the zoo with her bf. ah... childish? Nope, i think its a kind of romance. haha.

Come to think of it.. i have not been to the zoo for like..... more than 10 years le. =/

I wish i could go. To go through my childhood memories..

And i also wish to go to Jurong bird park... COZ I NEVER BEEN THERE BEFORE! >.<

Dont say i mountain turtle hor...

and.. and... I wish i could go thailand and taiwan..

I miss taiwan alot ever since the first trip last year... the shopping is fab, the food is fab, the clubbing is fab.. everything is so fabulous about there!!!!

I wanna go thailand coz i wanna shop till i drop!!!!

and and... i wanna go genting!!! i wanna try on the rides which i missed the other time i was there!!!

and and... sentosa KM8, i have not been there before lor.. =(

Oh.. i have so many wishes.. lolz.
posted by icy at 7/18/2006 01:28:00 AM

Tests

Sunday, July 16, 2006

Disorder

Rating
Paranoid:Low
Schizoid:Low
Schizotypal:Low
Antisocial:Low
Borderline:Low
Histrionic:Moderate
Narcissistic:Low
Avoidant:Low
Dependent:Moderate
Obsessive-Compulsive:Low

-- Personality Disorder Test --
-- Personality Disorder Information --


You Should Be A Leo

What's good about you: you always speak your mind and aren't scared of anything

What's bad about you: you have to be the boss, and you love to control others

In love: you enjoy being admired and pampered, but don't always reciprocate

In friendship, you're: easy to get along with and the center of attention

Your ideal job: member of royalty, TV anchor, or investment banker

Your sense of fashion: classic well fitting clothes that last forever

You like to pig out on: Greek or Italian food
What Sign Should You Be?


Your True Love Is a Taurus

Why you'll love a Taurus:

Romantic and sentimental, a Taurus can provide you with the security you need.
And you both share a fondness for the finest things, from great food to luxury vacations.

Why a Taurus will love you:

You have the honesty and direct approach that down to earth Taurus desires.
And enough elegance to show a Taurus a few new decadent delights!
What Sign Is Your True Love?


You Are Not a Gold Digger

You go out of your way to take care of everything in your life.
Including money - which you've got plenty of, thank you very much.
And you have no intentions of being a trophy girlfriend for some bald guy.
Just make sure that hottie you met isn't scheming to be your boy toy!
As a successful woman like you knows, gold digging goes both ways these days.
Are You A Gold Digger?


You Go For Brains!

You want a guy with a big... brain.
And of course it would be nice if he were a total hottie, but you're not counting on it.
What's on the inside is what counts for you. (Besides, you can always change the outside later!)
Do You Go For Brains or Body?


You are a Total Romantic

For you, love is like a fairy tale.
Or magic. Or a Meg Ryan movie.
Problem is, you sort of want all three.

You bring the spark in the relationship
In turn, you expect your guy to keep the fire burning
Not a bad deal, as long as you find the right Prince.
Are You a Romantic or Realistic?


Your Love Style is Agape

You are a caring, kind, and selfless partner.
Unsurprisingly, your love style is the most rare.
You are willing to sacrfice your world for your sweetie.
Except it doesn't really feel like sacrifice to you.
For you, nothing feels better than giving to the one you love.
What's Your Love Style?


Your Japanese Name Is...

Namiko Shigenoi
What's your Japanese Name?


The Keys to Your Heart

You are attracted to those who have a split personality - cold as ice on the outside but hot as fire in the heart.

In love, you feel the most alive when your lover is creative and never lets you feel bored.

You'd like to your lover to think you are loyal and faithful... that you'll never change.

You would be forced to break up with someone who was ruthless, cold-blooded, and sarcastic.

Your ideal relationship is comforting. You crave a relationship where you always feel warmth and love.

Your risk of cheating is zero. You care about society and morality. You would never break a commitment.

You think of marriage as something precious. You'll treasure marriage and treat it as sacred.

In this moment, you think of love as something you thirst for. You'll do anything for love, but you won't fall for it easily.
What Are The Keys To Your Heart?


Your Birth Month is November

Tolerant and inspirational, you are wise beyond your years.
You are universally sympathetic and a great humanitarian.

Your soul reflects: Compassion, friendship, and secret love

Your gemstone: Citrine

Your flower: Chrysanthemum

Your colors: Dark blue, red, and yellow
What Does Your Birth Month Mean?


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Hahaha. This shows how bored i am. >.<

I wonder how true is the first test. LOL.. I dun really have a personality disorder sia! how could that be. =/

Been watching the latest movies during my weekend, basic instinct & Pirates.

Woot. Both movies are excellent in terms of plot and acting!

Pirates is a Must watch, as for Basic instincts - can wait for VCD since there isnt any special effects in the show. Unless u are crazy about Sharon stone and her boobs. =P




posted by icy at 7/16/2006 11:20:00 PM

Misc..

Thursday, July 13, 2006
I saw this thread in Cozycot earlier and find this interesting.

Eating right for your blood type ( can lose weight also ! )

http://www.longfar.com.hk/en/products_details.php?ProductNo=0019


Blood Type A Formula

Ingredients: Soybean Extracts, Aloe Powder, White Kidney Beans and Raspberry.

Blood Type A is suitable for consuming cereal grain, soybeans and vegetables. Soybean extracts can assist fiber of body to attract bile acid and then get down the fat. Aloe contains various Vitamins and it can help for the metabolism. White Kidney Beans can inhibit the absorption of starchiness (e.g. Carbohydrate), then reduce the ingestion of energy. Raspberry contains Raspberry Ketone which may boost the metabolism, nourish the skin and keep beauty.

hmmm.. i wonder how true. MUAHAHA..

Each box is 95, with 180 pills in it. And according to a forumer who is selling it, its all natural with no side effects. And it was said to be highly effective.

I damn gian leh?..

i know i'll get friends calling me crazy.. say i so skinny liao still slim my head.

But hor.. i got tummy!!!!!!

Should i get tummy trim instead? =X

OKOK! I KNOW EXCERISE.. BUT I AM LAZY AND I GOT NO MOTIVATION!!!!!!!!..

I wan to have a hot body too.. but i dun. =(

I need motivation.

or.. is there anyone who wanna go jogging or blading with me? =D

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Next.. I now gian.. to learn salsa..

Anyone wanna learn with me ma??

I wanna learn dancing leh..

that time took up the hip hop... in the end it turn out to be flip flop. =(

Anyone out there willing to .. go with me? hehehe..

I am so freaking bored at home..

i need a job..

my funds are running out soon..

help..

Anyone knows any efficient agency that can get me a job?

Please recommend me??

..

Haiz.. Tomorrow have to wake up at 8am.. I forgot later 9am got doctor appt at SGH..

For my eye, and to get my new hard lens from there.

I wonder if i will be able to get used to it?

Spent 350 on tt stupid lens lor. Argh.

Bo pian.. Vainty.

why i got ulcer in the eye~ WHY~~~

*sigh*
posted by icy at 7/13/2006 01:40:00 AM

The 4th time..

Wednesday, July 12, 2006
Thinking back, i realise babe's wedding was the 4th time i was "invited" to be the jiemei/bridemaid.

1st - my 4th aunt wedding when i was 16

2nd - Celia jie wedding 2 years ago.

3rd - my youngest aunt wedding last mth

4th - Pris wedding this mth

Someone mention to me yesterday that there's a myth that a person cannot be a bridemaid for more that 3 times. Is it true?

*sigh*

Looking at quite a few of my friends getting married.. (through their pictures updated in friendster) i was kinda ..... sad for myself? feeling pathetic for myself? loss?

i dunno.

questions like..will i ever ever meet the man of my dreams?..will i ever ever be able to walk down the aisle?..

will appear in my brain.

Sometimes i wonder.. Have i been a bad kid that god has to... keep that man away from me for so long?

or... its not time for me yet?

I will keep persuading myself, i'm still young, i'm not ready.

I'm just tired of bumming around relationships after relationships.

I'm just feeling.. down.

I do not mean that i would want to rush. As i have also seen, couples getting divorce as and when they feel like it...

For now.. its just an empty feeling when u see friends around your age getting married.

and the fear of being left on the shelf..

and.. the fear of reaching the big number "3" and yet u are still unwanted.

few years back i was still sweet 18.

now?! MY GOD.. going to 23 liao leh~~

Tell me how not to worry when i have not even met the one that i would wanna lock my life with... =(

i see friends being together with their bf/gf for years. i see happiness shown on every of their pictures. if i say i dun envy them, i'm lying. lol. Yes, you can say, they will have their own problems. So what? At least, they have been through up's and down's together for so many years. and its a matter of time before they tie the knot right?..

ME DUN WAN TO BE THE OLD HAG LA~..

when char bor dun get married, they tend to be paranoid when they grows old.

I met a few liao lor.. Becoz of loneliness... =(

How how how?! I am not ugly, neither am i fat, neither am i looking for brad pitt as my hubby.

eh, dun say i siao wor.. if u think that i'm still too young to think of all these..

then when is not young? in another 2 years time, i'll be 25.. another 5 more years.. 28..

time flies de lor..

bah...

haiz.. i think i gave up hope liao. I might never be able to meet the one.

nvm! If i am to remain single, I will be a modern old hag. with lots of money to shop and tour around the world! *grinz*

tonight, i'm officially paranoid. =X
posted by icy at 7/12/2006 01:57:00 AM

My Babe - Prissy's Wedding

Tuesday, July 11, 2006
sorry for the late post! alright..

Last sat was my beautiful babe's customary wedding!

An updates on what we, the bridemaids/Jie Mei/Sister of my babe Pris, had in store for John the groom. *Evil Grinz*

Things we have done on the groom:

Firstly, we came up with this game call the superman. We had prepared 10 red undies for them and we actually customised it with the their names on it.

The groom and the bestmen had to wear it on top of their pants.

The groom had to run 3 rounds around his bestmen and Shout “SUPERMAN JOHN IS HERE TO SAVE PRISCILLA HAN” continuously.

While the bestmen were to stand in one straight line with their back facing us shaking their butt while the groom was running around them.

The bride is supposed to be able to hear them. If not they will have to do it all over again.

Secondly, we prepared a "feast" for the groom.

酸 (sour) - Freshly squeezed lemon juice + lime juice + wine vingear.
甜 (sweet) - Freshly grinded papaya + concentrated sugar with milkmaid syrup.
苦(bitter) - Raw bitter gourd
辣 (spicy) - Samba chilli + chicken rice chilli + LOTS of chilli padi (grind together)

Thirdly, we threw the room key into the pond and gave them a hint - "where the long and slimy lives)

Lastly, the ang pao obstacle where we haggled with the groom for the price of it right before he enters the room.

At the wedding dinner, we prepared 3 games, but due to shortage of time, we could only use one of it which is the ping pong ball game.

Bride will have to take the pingpong ball and slide it in from the bottom of the pants, to the top of the shirt.

If the pingpong ball drops out, bride will have to do it over again.

Evil? lol.. but it was a cool wedding reception!!!

The bestmen also took revenge on us at the wedding dinner. We were fooled to be on stage thinking that we have give our blessings to them.

In the end, they actually bring up 5 chairs and get 5 of the bestmen during the day to be sitted on it.

We had to "seduce" the bestmen by lap dancing on them. -.-"

Nvm... we did it. and we took revenge back again by making jacob (thinking that he was the one who thought of the idea) to drink up 3 almost full glasses of red wine. HAHAHA!

Pictures!

My outfit in the morning.

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My outfit in the night

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The bride! She is so fabulous on saturday!!

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The "Superman" bestmen LOL!

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The superman groom. Actually, i took video of the whole process, but as it is very personally, i shall not post it. later i tio pa. =X

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Fred, Jacob & alfred! They were 3 of the bestman!

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Fred & me! sigh, i look weird when i take pictures of my full face.

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Alfred & me~

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Jacob, Jo, Kevin, John(groom) and fred

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Kurt & me! he is the one that went into the pond to get the key for the groom! and he is also the one who came up with the idea of taking revenge on us! ARGH! lol.

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The bride & the groom first entry. sorry my camera not good enough. =(

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The bridemaids - Janice, Selina, Me & Mandy. the bride actually bought us the same dress for the night. =P There's another girl but she wasnt in the picture.

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The evening gown for the bride and groom. SexY!!

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Oh and this is jacob - after he drink up the 3 full full glasses of red wine. MUAHAHAHAHA! *EVIL LAUGH*

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lastly.. YES I AM ZHI LIAN! =P

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The wedding ended at around 12am with the groom getting drunk. lol. Everything was fun, fun and more fun.

Babe, I wish you happiness in your marriage and god bless. and yes, I LOVE YOU!!!
posted by icy at 7/11/2006 02:26:00 AM 0 commenti

Purchases!

Friday, July 07, 2006
Been shopping once again!

These are what i have Ordered from TW Auction!

From Kana

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2) The brown dress
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3)
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From Cutie Fashion!

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3)
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4)
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Total Damage: Less than 100!

Hmm.. Cutie fashion have not confirm yet as.. the seller seems to have limited quantity.. =/

Hope can get the dress ba.. I love it much much wor!! =(

And i think i'm gonna stop shopping for a moment.. CAUSE I AM BROKEEE.. ~~~>.<~~~

I am not working now!! no INCOME! HOW?!.. HAIZ..

Anyway, Tomorrow is my good friend wedding le!!! I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU PRIS~ and i painted my nails for the wedding tomorrow. (at hollywood secret!)

French Manicure with red and Gold. =X I dun usually paint my nails wor.. thats why i took photo of it. LOL!

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Nice hor? I got nice finger nails! *grinz* I know i BHB! But nvm! hehe..

My nails are natually "square shape" de!

and my nails do not crack unless i do something to it. (too hard liao)

but the manicurist say i must go often, coz alot of dead skin.

If i got the money.. i definitely will go often lor.. but i student wor.. how to go..

With the rate i'm shopping.. *HAIZ*

Can someone stop me from buying nice clothes?

I am such a sucker when it comes to clothes..

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Ok More pictures.. I suddenly think of my poly days.. So here are 3 pictures of those wonderful classmates i have!

This was taken 3 years ago.. Our last day of school..Time flies eh? hahaha.. Can i go back to that time? i was still young lor.. NOW OLD LIAO! *CRIES*

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The ladies.. On our last presentation days..

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And.. the final gathering before we were out of that school.. how sad. =(

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All working liao lor.. 2 become mothers' le.. and one is a Beauty pageant queen? i not sure if she won.. EXCEPT ME STILL IN SCHOOL!! =(

Faster finish school ba.. 10more mths to go.. hehe..

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posted by icy at 7/07/2006 08:48:00 PM 0 commenti

Er....

Ok Peeps,

Sorry, I am too plain freaking lazy to create a new blog. I nearly bang my head towards the wall while thinking of the template and stuffs.

Thus, i am continuing this blog, with a change of address and outlook.

Hows the new outlook? nice ma? hehehe..

Song have not change cause it is like 6am in the morning now and i'm blogging...

oh ya.. not to mention.. NAT THANKS!!!!!!! I LOVE U~~~~~~~~

She help me think of my blog address de.

Initally i wanted lilac angelz, but they all say too girl girl.. very the not me.. =(

I not girl girl meh?! =X

Ok.. i know.. i very chor lor.. =X

Everyone remember to update their own blog hor.. =X hehehe..

ok~ PICTURESS!

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Taken in MOS last wed!

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hehehe.. tts my 7370!

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Iris and me!

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Yesterday met up with my poly friends for a gathering at Heeren. Each year we will have at least one major outing.

Hohohoho~ Dinner at NYDC then we head down to IndoChine to chill out. PIctures!!

my hair abit messy ah.. Shirley on the left and celine on the right!

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Shir, celine, rachel, geri & grace!

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This was suppose to be a group picture...

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Now thats the correct one. lol.

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The 3 Masketeers - YongWen, KwangHeng & James!

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The group!

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The live band starts singing, and they actually invited the floor to join in..

And the next moment.. we sabo KH up the stage.. LOL!

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Wanna hear him sing? Video! HOHOHO.. KH is gonna kill me.. LOL



Nice right! Bro! u can become a singer liao la!!!

It was nice meeting everyone once again. The last time we met up was during the christmas party held @ grace's house.

Oh well.. when will be the next outing again?? grace lets go clubbing together one day ok! hehehe..

Tomorrow.. then i update my new purchases.. LOL..

I am so freaking tired now.

*gonez*
posted by icy at 7/07/2006 05:31:00 AM 0 commenti

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