i'm bored with my life. something is wrong with it and i dunno what is it.

i feel that i am not living it to the fullest, like something is lacking.

a goal.. a dream perhaps.

whats my passion?

=/

its irritating the hell out of me alot. =.=!

In the Month of June i have attended so far.. 2 weddings.

pocket very pain! but no choice..

more to come!!!

june 6th Jev and Jo's solemnization

http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=98764&id=721391715

http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=98699&id=721391715

and mark & anna's wedding which was held last sat.





i was the emcee of the night.. well.. didnt do a great job. but still passable i guess.



this was my co-emcee.



=D





i look fat!!

boo..

weddings after weddings.. everyone's been asking when is my turn.

HAA. i can only reply. 4 years LATER!!

i dun wanna get married so early, i dun see a need to get married so early, i dun have the money to get married so early, i dun have the "heart" to commit myself @ that kind of level to anyone yet.

as much as i envy those photos.. those nice wedding pictures.. but its just those pictures.. and being the highlight of the night.. being the must beautiful person for 1 day..

other than that.. nahzz. i prefer to focus on my career, my business.. and making sure.. i will be happy with my future.

further more.. i cannot married early! fortune teller say one. =P must be at least 30 and above. hURR..

just being at weddings is good enough. to see and feel the love, the happiness in the air, is enough to keep my contented for now. (not the pockets thou.. haa)

its nice to see yr friends getting married, dun you all think so too? =D

yahoooooooooo to everyone~ hope everythings fine with all of yoU~ (as thou i have alot of readers.. bahhh. lol! i just like to assume can! its stupid to write to myself to read only!)

me? as u can see from my previous msg.. not very good.

but i wun die! becoz i am 打不死的蟑螂！！ then again .. pls for goodness sake, if u wanna stab. stab in front, dun stab the back.. behaving like an ass u know! ass behind ma! like to go thru the backdoor. in front got door dun wanna go, wanna go backdoor. *SIGH*

*LAUGHS* is this consider backstabbing? hur hur hur.

nvm this one my blog, i dun give a damn.

anyways~!! miss my pics bo! i scared u all forget me!!

i have alot of pics on facebook. but lazy to upload here.. coz so MANY CAN!!

i am having a nice mood today as u can see from the tone of my post!

i will not let ass-es like him to ruin my days! althou he has ruin alot of others.

but i felt better today! coz i vomitted everything out!!! feels good u know. =P

I learn one new thing.. "never treat a colleague as a friend, a colleague is a colleague, work is work, friends aint colleagues, colleagues aint friends!!"

yeah. my new facts of life.

=D

anyhow..~! pics!

this is just a random post, with random thoughts and random pics ok! so all pics are very random!

i was just trying to act cute! =D i know like tt i will have more winkle lines in the future.. but .. i like leh i loook like a mouse. HAAA.



before clubbing. =D



my first and only corset! =DDDD i love it~! and i love this pic!!



do you all miss pepper?



he was falling asleep!



i found a new desert place with nice crepes!! doesnt it look delicious!!!





its at raffles city shopping centre. behind behind near to the .. coffee bean there i think? its at b1, and its surrounding a water fountain one. NOT the crepe place another one. i forgot shop name ps. LOL!

miss me everyone, till next time!!

stab me in front, not the back.

the walls have ears do u know?

i aint stupid. dun treat me as one.

its war between u and me.

i'm not talking about the female.

i am talking about u.

oh if the female happen to see this, yeah u can go tell him about it.

tell him i am saying this.

and say if u wan do it face to face, rather than doing it behind my back.

if this is how he deals with things, no wonder everyone is unhappy about him.

*YAWNZ*

office romance - the good

There are many issues -- both positive and negative -- to consider before engaging in office romances. One of the positive aspects is time efficiency, since you no longer need to search for a significant other in the evening. Why look around for potential dates when you have an office full of beautiful women? You save both time and money.

A second advantage to dating someone in the workplace is that since you spend so many hours together at work, you already have an idea of what she's like. This can save you from lots of headaches down the road.

A final advantage, besides the sex, is that you can carpool. Not only do you get to spend the night together, you also save on gas. Wow, what are the chances that you could date women that would save you gas money?

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office romance - the bad

Office romances also have their drawbacks. For example, no matter how well the relationship is going, the situation itself is a recipe for disaster. The fact that couples are in constant contact with one another day and night may cause friction within the relationship. Everyone needs "alone time" to pursue hobbies or hang out with friends, and the lack thereof may cause relationships to self-destruct.

Office romances may interfere with individuals' abilities to perform their professional duties. Imagine telling your girlfriend that she's fired? There is obvious potential for conflicts of interest between office situations and relationships. Be sure to avoid accusations of favoritism, which may harm the morale of colleagues.

Jealousy is another negative issue. Because you must usually keep office relationships a secret, other employees may flirt with your partner or vice-versa. You have to keep in mind, that this type of flirting is common and happens all the time in the workplace. So keep cool or the cat's out of the bag.

(adapted from http://www.askmen.com/dating/curtsmith/getiton10.html)

clearly, office relationships has its good and bad.

however, as rational as you may be, when it comes to emotions, a person can never stay fair.

imagine when its the boss dating your colleague?

Or if you are in the shoes of a boss and u start to date yr subordinates are you able to stay fair? are you able to make sure she still meet the numbers? be able to do the day to day job? or would you actually pump your numbers into her account so that she stay afloat? or you help her to cover, or even push her paperwork to the rest so that she can pator with u?

clearly thats when unfairness and bias-ness comes into play.

i really wonder if a super rational person can stay rational when it comes to emotions.

=(

car currently in garage.

had an accident last monday which involved 3 cars altogether.

i was the one trapped in the middle. in short, front and back kanna.

how it happened?

well.. as i was driving along canberra road heading to SAF yacht club for an appt..

a toyota picnic suddenly jam break. i manage to stop in time. but the audi behind me couldnt.

it collided into me which force my car to move forward and bang the picnic.

my whole boot.. chui.

the picnic had a big big dent behind..

while.. audi? only one freaking scratch. WAH LAN EH.

i had to call for tow car to tow my baby away.... =(

now its in the garage. and i wonder when will it be back..

and freaking hell i am still having nightmares abt the freaking accident. =.=

my first.. and definitely not the last. =.=!