headed down to DF on fri with celia jie and robert.

alot of the old clubbing kakis was around.

saw francis and derek (devils bar), mandy and pris was there too, jacky ah dar, gary, fred and gin. chris and kenny, together with jane.

started drinking at 11, and i concussed at 12+.

first time blackout at DF wor!

Was sitting at the sofa.. and the next moment i slept.

alot of ppl call me on my mobile. but i didnt hear..

finally woke up at 2am.. and gin say they tried to wake me up alot of times but i keep telling them later. lol lol.

woke up with my body still red.

ahh.. so worried about roadblocks..

but thankfully everything was ok.

*heng sia*

Pics Pics: Everything is in sepia becoz i was already damn red lol.

Moi and Jane



Fred and moi! my bestie. =D who says guy and girl cannot be best friends?



gin dun wanna take picture with me so only fred took pic with me. =(



Fred ahdar wayne and jane



Moi and celia jie!



Jie and Jiefu. =)



Random:

The week before.. at velvet with jean darling. =)



Thur went out fondue and movie with CJ. =D Zohan is hilarious!!



wasnt feeling good. so CJ treated me to fondue. yum yum~ anderson's fondue is worth the price! $19.90 only~! thanks dear! =D



i wanna go again!!





Moi car interior. noon view



night view. oh and i'm listening to retro as u can see. hahahhaa.



RS says he will help me do bling bling from my car at the toyota logo.=P



me and my ride. =)

sorry for the lack of post.

been trying to get used to my car.

u see.. when u have a new toy u will tend to .. spend more time with it.

but now i realise how expensive it is to.. own that toy.

and its scary.. on how much it can spend from me.

worse than my pepper.

and when it gets "sick" or.. i made another get "sick".. its damn expensive la!

now i feel the pitch when accidents happen.

i needa find more money for it liao.

no more nice and slow life.

time to.. fasten my pace a hell lot more.

and time to be.. extremely aggressive.

no time no time..!!!!! i need more $$$!!!

i think i will never be able to get married somehow. lol.

married to my car. slogging for it day and night is enough.

everything in sg.. is all about money!!!!!!

bah. enough of complaining.

have quite a few pics taken from the dog competition that i have attended last sunday.

enjoy!



The red carpeted walkway is where the dog has to "catwalk"





Dogs

These are the species of dogs that i have never seen b4. first time in my life.












cute!



look at the very very well groom maltese!



shin tsu



Poodle! never in my life i have seen a non-miniature one



golden retriver





hurr.. dogs are man best friend. =)

3 years consecutively, we have been celebrating her birthday today.

Dinner at buckaroo before coming back to Serangoon gardens for deserts.

A simple and quiet dinner with her.

=)

Its been a long time since we gather together. =)

















lalallaa..

he's here he's here.

and with his arrival comes great responsibility. (sound so cheezy =X)

and therefore i needa strive hard and be serious with my job in supporting him.

and like my friend say.. welcome to the "slogging for the car club!"

hahahhaa.

true true...

=)

My fever went away the whole of today..

until now.

it came back again.

slight fever.

i stone the whole of today...

my brain wasnt functioning well.

i dunno what i need to do.

neither do i wanna do anything.

was very tired.

but i dun wanna sleep becoz later in the night i toss and turn in bed again..

Plus i was bedridden the whole of yesterday due to the high fever.

it wasnt a very nice feeling.

=(

a bad bad flu...

nitez peeps.

I was surfing around my friends blog when i was lead to this blog.

http://singaporedissident.blogspot.com/

Thought i should share it with everyone who comes into my blog since it is something that affects us. Us who are living in SG.. where we live in a democratic country.

How do you feel after reading?

I'm sick again.

Down with 38.8degree fever, block/congested nose and a serious cough.

my whole body is aching.

i dun have strength to even sit straight..

i feel so cold outside, but very hot inside.

I shivers every now and then.

it feels hot and cold and i dunno to cover myself with blanket or not.

my face is all numb..

ahhhh..

i feel like shit now lor. =(

---

Its 6am in the morning now..

and i just sweated..

my whole shirt is coated with my sweat..

My fever comes on and off..

every 2 hours i feel different.,

after sweating i will feel better, but 2hrs later my fever comes back again..

=(

i feel so shitty now..

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHA.

I cannot stop laughing as i recalled what happen yesterday.

Chris Caroline and i Together with one of their fren attended this seminar which i was invited to join.

The dinner sux like hell and therefore we decided to go for supper after the seminar end.

One of their fren who kindly sent us to my place and take the car before driving to Jalan Kayu..

and halfway thru the journey... the car died. RIGHT IN THE MID OF THE CROSS JUNCTION WANTING TO TURN RIGHT!

All of us freak out.

We couldnt start the car again.

And we have never encounter auto car dying off.

o.O

As we were hindering the on coming traffic, Chris and the other guy had to get down the car and push is back. We tried re-starting again, and it shows a no-battery Sign.

Thankfully.. a Tow car passed by lor!

Damn heng.

I frantically waved to him and he came to help us.

and.. apparently..

the car was ok.

we just didnt push the gear to "P" sign properly..

thats why we were unable to start the car..

CAN U IMAGINE HOW EMBARRASSING IT IS?!

hahahaha.

4 of us, quickly got up the car and drove off.

We keep laughing in the car.

Blur Blur US! LOL~!!!

Maybe god is trying to make me be prepared for mine that is coming on thurs.

Sigh.

Stress! =X

Met up with jeannie babe earlier for a manicure session + dinner.

She intro this mani parlor over at hougang which i feel that its quite good.

Thanks darling girl. and thanks for the treat. =)






I love my nails now! its very beautiful! =D

We had a real good chat over dinner finally. =DDDD

Thanks darling girl! Thank yoU!! =)

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Went mambo ytd. =X

yeah yeah i know.. i cannot resist temptations!

Mandy Babe was around and its been a long time since we last "platformed" together.



The songs.. wasnt really that fantastic ytd.. and it was FREAKING PACKED LOR!

i wonder why..

I always believe that.. trust is earned not given.

and i always feels that.. one should come clean with their past, so that nothing will haunt back at them in the future as u never know what will happen.

I have alot of girlfriends, who will always advise one another.. that girls should NEVER tell everything abt their past as.. the truth always hurts?

Is it true that if speaking the truth, it will be.. more likely to hurt a men's ego?

Isnt wat past is past?

and that.. when one speaks the truth, it means she/he has already let go of the past and he/she is willing to say it out?

When one hides the unspeakable, doesnt it means that.. the past hasnt been put behind?

i mean, thats what i think.

I feel that.. its always good to come clean with all that it matters to both, rather than letting your partner find out in the future becoz when that happen, the trust is breached.

Do man have any idea that actually girls are very very sensitive creatures?

and that.. a slight.. difference in behavior, attitude and even.. a special move for a special other someone.. could trigger suspicious?

and that.. when the partner finds out, the damage is worse than you telling it right from the beginning and the trust could actually be.... destroyed?

How can one... destroy the beginning trust that is earned?

1) definitely.. the usual - two timing.

2) Being especially nice to some other girls. A difference in treatment than the rest.

3) Holding someone else in the heart, only to be found out later.

4) ... and the list go on.

How can one earn the trust?

1) Actions. Proof that you love her. by showering her with other than attention, and small actions of thoughtfulness that she's always in your mind every now and then.. by.. maybe buying food? small little inexpensive gifts?

2) yeah yeah.. words maybe plays some part. but dun do it so frequently that it became "the usual"

3) At the very start of the courting days.. Pls for goodness sake, do it beautifully. Make sure u dun flirt or hug or whatever with other girls in front of her..

4) Introduce everyone, and everyone that surrounds you. Make sure she is known by all.

5) Give her a feeling that u can be trusted. How? well, its all in the heart that is shown thru the eyes. We can feel, we can see and we know.

6) Proof to her that.. you are proud to have her, and that you trust her. One way of earning trust is to trust that person first.

7) ... and the list goes on which my brain is kinda of empty now.

How do one earn back the trust that has been breached? Now this is the difficult part. Becoz you have done the unspeakable.

If this happens.. then u will have to think.. harder.

Put yourself in your partner's shoe and think.. what will you want him/her to do.. to earn back the trust.

Dun ask if you should do this, or you should do that.

Do and tell him/her what have u done.

and that you do that on your own accord.

and becoz u love him/her thats why you decided to do this.

Becoz it shows more sincerity and that you really really love him/her thats why u have decided on doing that.

BUT dun, just say for the sake of saying, and later on you were discovered that you have lied.

i think.. that will further hurt the relationship even more.

becoz.. when you say a lie, you will needa say another to cover the first lie you made.. and it goes on and on and on..

And by the time u know it.. it has snowball into something so major that you do not know how to handle it.

Other than that? Well.. if the trust has been broken.. so much. that insecurity occurs...

its best.. to cool off, and allow your partner to "rest"..

and talk things out nicely..

Whether the relationship should continue.. or end..

if continues.. both partner have to put in tons of effort to gain back the trust in the relationship. =)

Becoz.. alot of time.. when the trust is broken.. the relationship is naturally... broken. into million pieces...

i hope this helps.. to anyone who is facing a "trust" issue in the relationship!

=)

P.S: this is just my thoughts. Its not a guide. but.. maybe.. it is logical enough to help someone. By all means, you can disagree with me. It doesnt matter. =)

Oh.. and if anyone out there is facing a problem that need some advises, or.. maybe a 2nd opinion, you can by all means email to me at icy_carol@yahoo.com.sg =)

I may not be a professional love guru, but i think i should be able to give logical opinions. =)

PLS DO NOT SPAM MY EMAIL!

I will officially.... start a new phrase of my life, with my new sets of priorities.. with.. my new husband. (well, guys always say their car is their wife..)

so yeah, my baby is coming. In a week time.

Excited i am, worried i am too.

Am i able to handle that commitment as it goes?

i certainly hope so. =)

I'm.. definitely excited. very. =D

On the first day.. what i will do with it?

I wonder.

drive around the whole of SG!

hahahaha~

The new facelift Vios. My new baby. OOhhh i cant wait for yr arrival!



Everything abt the car!



oh, did i mention before i ordered black? =)

and i'm so gonna get 2 red cushions and place it at the back! (IKEA has it! =D )

yummy. =)

soft toys are not my.. cup of tea. but maybe... a cute little dog plush toy? or my CJ7 plush toy? hahaha.

Birthdays after Birthdays.

Fri was Pris BD, floyd and i met in town to get her a birthday present.

Decided on a nice dress from kai as we presume alot would be giving her wallets and more wallets. lol.

We were the first and the most punctual to arrive at her party and i am the first to leave too.

Didnt wait till she cut her cake as i had to run off to meet another. (sorry babe)

Sat was Jacky ah dar's birthday celebration at DF.

A lot of people were there. ALOT.

It was so squeezy!

Finally i saw ah dar 得到他的幸福！真替他开心！=D

祝我的ahdar永远幸福快乐！天天开心！=D

Pics

Had a seminar on thurs and we were sitting right at the back. couldnt see the screen.. and therefore.. i started to camwhore studious them. =X







My left side view! =X ugly right. zzz.



and when we were done with my seminar and leaving SPC... we saw this. The owner was there. and he was shaking his head telling the mgmt. He is not proud of it. lol.

Apparently, car park was full and SPC actually direct the drivers to the central of the building. and this driver could find a car park slot and decided to go down to the basement carpark.

he saw the sign but he didnt see the stairs. he tried taking the shortcut in the end he landed himself and the car in an embarrassing situation and had to ask the workshop ppl to come and.. get the car out before further damages was done.



Sat: DF

Gin and Fred! I love them! *MUACK*~!



Moi and Gin babe~!



Birthday boy ahdar and fred. =)



Gary and i. (I LOOK BLOATED HERE! FreaK! =(~ )



Ahdar with his champagne!



Fred and i. i'm red by then.



this is half of wat was available. they mix a special drink for ahdar. and i dunno whats that.. however.. i do know that.. they have 2 big cannon(one at the back of the pic as u can see..), many small small cannon (martel), champagne, guinness stout, and many more...



ah dar was nearly knocked out by 1. but i do know that.. he was super high by 1. thats for sure..

Random Pics:

Mommy with pepper!



i found this on one of my fren's profile and find it cute!

Application for a night out with the boys. hahahahahhaa.